note to self

"... With their ruthless drive for success, 35/8s have a repressed power that can at times make other people uncomfortable; this power sometimes frightens 35/8s themselves

...  need to clear subconscious self-sabotage ...

discipline leads to personal power and self-control (rather than attempts to control others) ... many 35/8s get scattered trying to do too much, diluting their efforts by pursuing too many opportunities. Focus amplifies their effectiveness.

...These individuals also tend to swing from extreme dependence when feeling self-doubt, to extreme independence when feeling aggressive.

... can feel inhibited about expressing their feelings ... this may manifest in talking abstractly.

They generally don't want to be bound or tied down to conventions. They are used to making the rules, not following them...

The fulfillment of 35/8s lies not in their awesome mental capacity, but in their capacity to love and sacrifice.

... In many cases, 35/8s have difficulty sustaining long-term relationships until they are thirty or forty years old; before that time, they tend to fall into power struggles, as well as issues concerning dependence and independence. Although 35/8s can be dedicated and loving partners, their work is almost always the centre of their lives, and it helps if they can find self-sufficient partners who understand their dedication to their work from the outset.